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Showing posts with label Prose: English. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 12

A Journey, with Love...



Here's a short story, pure imagination, wishful thinking, heartfelt desire 
or may be a just wild dream awaiting realization!!



"Time has no meaning... Love will endure!!" ~ Jude Deveraux



Time is endless and so is Love. Romance in the air feels like a fresh lease on life. But, nothing compares in romanticism to a long drive with one's sweetheart into the recesses of nature. Dream, a desire, finally a reality which was realized in  the breathtaking aura created by rains, dripping trees, lush green mountains, beautiful waterfalls, rivers at their full vigour... and just the two of them! 

As they planned, planned 'n planned their escape into oblivion, a dream began to take shape. The trick lay in their escape from their own lives, how, when, where, what, backups, so on and so forth. They contemplated all pros and cons, covered their tracks, at times losing hope of ever realizing their dream, but yet somewhere within the core of their bonded hearts, they knew it would take time, efforts, facing barriers, but they would be able to enliven it! 

The plan was simple "3-R's" - Road, Rain 'n Romance. No prior bookings, no set travel time, halts and food as per convenience. Just a perfect mesh of sanity 'n insanity, planning 'n craziness, but more than anything else in the whole wide world - incomparable, beautiful friendship 'n deep love. Living, visualizing, anticipating the pleasures of their journey together, stealing some moments of pure bliss, building on what they once shared, extending the experience by a minuscule time from their lives... Lives they had pledged to others, a journey ruled by their hearts that throbbed in unison 'n souls that were entwined as one.

Finally, the D-day arrived. As he left his home 'n took to the wheels, he knew she would be waiting, waiting to join him as promised, on this crazy journey of love. As he reached their pick-up point, there she was... Waiting with a naughty twinkle in her eyes... Casting her spell, a spell that had lasted a lifetime since the first day they met. As they embarked on the journey, automatically their emotional baggage got dropped behind. Fastening their seat belts, glancing at each other with illuminated smiles, love flashing in their eyes, they drove out into a world of their own, oblivious to world outside there realm of togetherness. A much awaited, desired, refreshing, welcome change; a time that was bound to take them eons away from the vagaries of their individual lives. 

"Monsoon" was not called the season of love 'n romance without reason, and the saying, ‘Rain brings lovers closer’, never was so very true. Soft, romantic music reignited the passion between them. The long road to destination marked by companionship brought them to beautiful lush green ghats, and it was there that they witnessed their first showers. Even the incessant showers failed to dampen their spirits, instead it just added a glee to their eyes, making their love blossom a tad bit more, a lingering reminder of their First Date, years ago...

As they crossed each milestone on this journey of love, they nudged a bit, played a bit, teased a bit, enjoying the sensual 'n romantic rhythms of nature. Music synced with their moods automatically and played along. Soon, rains relented and they hit a consistent speed, listening to their favorite songs, relishing a specially cooked meal, singing, talking, but best of all sharing a companionable silence, they crossed over the State limits through magically winding mountainous roads. A picturesque location out into the wilds, the scenic beauty of clouds at one end 'n the setting Sun behind them, enticed them to stop and click away, capturing the beauty of their time together... Frozen in Time!!

Even though fun and rekindled passion reigned, they never lost concentration or forgot the basics of safe driving. Stopping, resting, keeping their wits about, consulting directions and weather forecasts, following speed limits, taking all precautions, so that nothing untoward marred their beautiful time together.

The serene beauty of nature drove them wild, motivating them to keep their camera rolling, capturing each memory, each spoken word, as a tribute to their lasting love. Rains forced them to stop at a road side restaurant, where hot tea as a beverage, never felt so refreshing post a long strenuous drive in teeth chattering cold weather.

As night approached, visibility reduced, but they drove on with the pitter-patter of raindrops and each other for company. Constant weather and route updates from friends prompted them to take a night halt at a small sleepy town. As they ventured into the town late evening, in search of a place to put up, they were appalled and awed, that the town certainly did lived up to its reputation.

It was a much needed, perfect stop-over before they hit the highway before dawn, the next day. A wide four lane highway greeted them majestically, peppered on both sides with mountains, forests, lush green plains, flower plantations, refreshing glimpses of local life significantly marked with the aspiring new generation headed to school. He watched, memorized, relished, every moment as rain splashed on his beloved's face as she peered out the window while he drove; cherishing their priceless time together. They saw clouds caress the mountains, seemingly touching the ground, a beautiful drive through vineyards, a cruise on an elevated Highway, that crossed over the whole city.

It was a while on the Highway that rain came down hard on them witnessing the blinding ‘Monsoon Magic Spell’. The tiny droplets of water soon became a thunder shower, with dark grey clouds, setting the love birds into an even more romantic mood. They time-n-again thanked their well-wishers for prompting them for a night halt, 'cos had they not done so they would have lost out on the magical experience of almost gliding through the clouds. The aura was almost mystical, with wind swept sheets of rain, flashing headlights, flickering hazard lights, and a mystical experience of wading through the mist. Gradually, what they'd perceived as mist turned out to be clouds kissing the earth. The captivating beauty had enthralled them, entranced them so much, that the sudden spot of zero visibility zapped them out of their reverie. Their SUV's bonnet seemed to have disappeared, there was whiteness all around; tensed, they inched their way through the dense clouds, peering through the sheer whiteness, judging by their combined instincts, stopping intermittently, perspiring despite the chill, almost frantic till at last, thankfully, clouds thinned over. Unable to speak, they just looked at each other with relief, renewed confidence, and love, feeling deep within, that their bond had strengthened even more over last couple of minutes.

Sighing, they pulled over, reminiscing the scenic beauty, the chills 'n thrills of an experience that sent shivers down their spine, now etched in their memory for a lifetime. Their tryst with destiny called for a much needed boost, and they halted at a refreshments zone, just touching the outskirts of their final destination. An hour later as they sat sipping coffee and reliving the experience with a friend, the enormity and the stark surrealness of the trip began to hit them, and together they thanked the Almighty, for bringing them safely to their destination.

It was not their first ride together but certainly the longest and the most eventful of all the trips combined. A "Dream Come True", ironically marked by the characteristic ethereal misty aura associated with dreams. An experience that strengthened the bond they'd always shared; enjoying the renewed closeness with "Groovy Kind Of Love" playing in the background - the secret ingredient of the unseen element of "Grooviness" keeping them bonded through time!!



Thursday, January 3

A Perspective to "Boycott of Republic Day"



I recently read a Blog Post that vehemently criticized the "Boycott of Republic Day" proposition made by some people/groups on social media networks as being overtly insensitive to the feelings of the Armed Forces. Personally, I do not support the demand for a simple reason that somewhere it will not serve a long term purpose, but thinking from their perspective, their view point emerges from the sheer frustration looking at the callousness displayed by the Government... and a thought that may be a mass protest across the Nation could have World's attention riveted to the issue not only in India but World over. This is what I perceived about the demand and wrote it as a response that post, but I guess since the view point was 100% contrary to what the author mentioned therein, the comment was disapproved. ...


I would like to begin by quoting...

1950 First Republic Day of India speech by Dr. Rajendra Prasad... "We must re-dedicate ourselves on this day to the peaceful but sure realization of the dream that had inspired the Father of the Nation and the other captains and soldiers of our freedom struggle, the dream of establishing a classless, co-operative, free and happy society in 'his country'. We must remember that this is more a day of dedications than of rejoicing - dedication to the glorious task of making the peasants and workers the toilers and the thinkers fully free, happy and cultured."

... and then I am driven to ask the question...

"DOES THE SOVEREIGN REPUBLIC OF INDIA, TODAY, PORTRAY ANY OF THE ABOVE MENTIONED?"


"Boycotting" is a representative gesture portraying insecurity towards an existing scenario. Republic Day celebrations bring together the entire Nation in unison with feelings of patriotism and recognition of the sacrifices made by our Armed Forces in adverse conditions. This event certainly salutes the Armed Forces, recognizes their efforts and applauds our Cultural Diversity... BUT... "Is whatever that's happening in our midst, "OUR CULTURE"? Is this what our valiant soldiers are laying their lives to protect??"

None of those, who are thus protesting, wish to dishonour the soldiers, but question we need to ask ourselves IS that aren't their sacrifices being negated when the very existence of our women is dishonoured? The writer of the blog was vehement that such "protesting" individuals did not realize the sacrifices made by these men who protect us from external enemies in adverse geographic conditions... But what about the "Internal Enemies"? Enemies of Humanity? Enemies posing as friends? The real tribute would be when every individual within the country, irrespective of gender, nationality, age, caste, socio-economic status, and other demographics, feels safe and is not threatened by the enemy within.

I believe whatever has happened in the last few days has pained our soldiers even more that us. No matter how patriotic, wouldn't they begin to question whom are they protecting - a country whose morals have gone to the dogs? A country where women are treated as objects of carnal desire to an extent that men are willing to destroy them for it? A country where the victim is asked questions, labelled, ostracized; while the guilty go unquestioned, scott free, they themselves badmouthing the victim?? A country where no one is safe from individuals languishing in their in their own egos, filthy ideas and ways to attain their personal objectives and gains?? A country which by the hour is being raped by its very own lawmakers??

Though, the demand may seem insane, but do people feeling hurt and complaining about the insensitivity of the same realize, that this is one such celebration that binds the Nation together, irrespective of the demographic profile of the audience?? It is celebrated all across with equal fervor and devotion as at Rajpath. It can be a platform for people to voice their opinions and take a stance... Make a Difference! There is need for an awakening and that's what this Boycott is all about. It is an attempt to unite us as a Nation and reclaim our rightful existence!!

If the masses of educated Indians boycott the flag hoisting, it would certainly make a statement... It would show the World that if worst comes to worse, people can take things into their hands to get justice. A Sovereign Republic means "For the People, By the People, Of the People" and it definitely is not a property of an Individual, the Government, a Ruling Party, the Party Chief, the Prime Minister or the President!

Did people, who so vehemently proposed not celebrating personal events/festivals for a year, refrain from having a celebration of their own on New Year's eve?? And if they did... what difference could they make to the sorry state of affairs in the country over the last three days atleast?? NOTHING!! ZILCH!! I believe looking within and introspecting at all levels, could make the author think from a broader, different and a more holistic perspective, since he has the experience and capability to address sentiments from a Armed Forces Perspective, as a Citizen and more so as a person who claims to respect women for what they are.

Just came across this article*... and as a woman could relate to the lines written therein... 

"To protect her privacy the victim’s name was not released publicly. But while she remains nameless, she did not remain faceless. To see her face, women had only to look in the mirror. The full measure of their vulnerability was finally understood."

The "Boycott Republic Day" demand is not about bringing justice to one individual but creating an awakening in the Society, Government and the system at large; its a demand for freedom and safety to the Citizens of India that not only respects, but helps enrich their existence and not destroy them for personal gains... Its a demand to bring about a change in the unruliness that's gripped the nation at all levels. It demands an answer to a persistent question "IF NOT NOW, THEN WHEN????"

Achieving a society as envisioned, would be the ultimate salute to our brave soldiers and their families... One that they deserve for their undying spirit, valour, hardships, patriotism, sacrifice and love for the Nation!!




NOTE: I salute the Indian Armed Forces for not celebrating New Year's!! And, as for those who considered it as a slap on the face of people demanding the Boycott, should know that its a kick on the butt for those who thought Armed Forces craved for recognition at the Republic Day showcasing. It simply enhanced the Human demeanor of "Men of Steel"!! SALUTE!!





* http://www.nytimes.com/2013/01/02/opinion/the-unspeakable-truth-about-rape-in-india.html?_r=1&


This is the Author's perspective, a different viewpoint to the issue and should not be taken personally by anyone!!

Friday, November 23

Life Fundas



Something diferent that sparked up from my whirling mind!!



Rules to consider before getting into Relationships...



  1. Never go to bed with Friends or Friends of Friends
  2. Never go to bed with Friends of Exes or Exes of Friends
  3. Never go to bed with Brother's Friends or Friends' Brothers
  4. Never go to bed with more than one guy from school, college, workplace, etc; Avoid category repetition at all costs.


Understanding Love... 



  1. One person can love One other person for just One reason
  2. One person can love One other person for 100 different reasons
  3. One person can love 100 different persons for just One reason
  4. One person can love 100 different persons for 100 different reasons


Some Eye-Openers...


  1. The proverbial "Love at first sight" is never so... "It always Lust at first Sight"
  2. Love needn't always end in a Physical relationship; and Being in a Relationship doesn't always mean having sex
  3. Love has levels beyond the boundaries of one's thinking and control
  4. Love for a person transcends a spectrum of thoughts and cravings
  5. Loving someone doesn't mean you need to get married ultimately
  6. Never shy from approaching your Ex for a reconnect. They are the ones who have known you through your previous relationship and kept a track post the breakup; they know you better than anyone ever will!!
  7. If your love married someone else by will or under pressure, it doesn't mean u can't continue loving or caring for them or they for you; the love transcends to a different level from thereon... it still remains intact and continues to grow!
  8. Marriage doesn't mean initiation of love... Its lust that kick starts the cart and carries it a distance; trust takes over next; understanding backs up the mechanism; love comes to fore at the fag end of the journey
  9. Last but not the least, Love has nothing to do with the Heart but the workings of your brain!!







KEEP LOVING!!


Tuesday, May 8

The RED Dot !!


MALE OR A FEMALE FOETUS…?? Who holds RESPONSIBILITY??

Ethically, NO ONE!!      Religiously, NO ONE!!      Morally, NO ONE!!      
                     Biologically, Yes, THE FATHER!!
But most certainly, NOT THE UNBORN!!

Mind has been in a whirl for as long as I remember over the issue of female foeticide and had expressed my desire to write my views on it to a friend a couple of months back in tandem with his thoughts on the issue… Sadly, it never saw the light of the day but here I am jotting down my thoughts and views on the issue…  As they continue to flow in …

Aamir Khan’s सत्यमेव जयते or Truth Prevails, aired on prime time television created a much anticipated furor over the matter as Marketers would put it… But, did it actually reach the deep crevices of the Indian "Mind Space" where the basic view against the female species takes roots?? A zone where a female is considered a burden one way or other?? A level where she is seen only as an object of desire, not a living individual with a heart, mind and soul of her own??

Today, the media is abuzz over the issue… who are these people on the Social or Mass media?? Educated men and women, right?? I dare to ask most of them how they treat the woman in their lives – mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wives, daughters? Haven’t they abused or ill-treated the women in their lives for one reason or other, expecting them to understand and accommodate and adjust for whatever perspectives they themselves see lives as, wanting them to conform to norms, shut out their own minds and stop thinking individualistically?? Have they ever voiced their opinion when they see anyone close to them being ill-treated or whipped around??

It’s really sad to know that in a country where women are worshiped in form of goddesses and the country itself being referred to as a Motherland such heinous crimes have been prevalent for centuries. Female foeticide has been a blazing issue for almost forever but why does it so happen that it takes a person like Aamir to rattle our brains about it??? And even after that how many are actually doing something to address the issue in the origin of its core…??

One has to realize that the skewed gender statistics in India today are not something that have emerged all of a sudden but are a gory result of generations of fixed thinking and basic intent towards females. Men alone can’t be held responsible for fuelling the desire for a male child, its onus lies equally if not more on women in the Indian society who have been brought up to think of themselves as burdens or hand changing objects ever since time immemorial.

Female Foeticide - the gory result of various desires ranging from the desire for a male heir to dowry expectations to responsibility of protecting her from prying male eyes at every juncture to ever rising marriage expenses as she grew up. We will save her in the womb now, but what when she is born?? What when she needs protection at every stage in life from prying male eyes ready to rape her at any age or time? What of the life after she gets married? Who will save her from the lesser known more complex form of Marital Rape? What’s thought provoking, is just not killing a female in the womb of her mother, but killing a female just when she takes her first breath, at every juncture of her life, physically, emotionally or mentally, treating her no less than an object, a property, or still worse... a doormat.

Thought provoking programs on mass media create a sizzle about women or doing something for their benefit, before, during and after birth, throughout their lives, looks good from the marketing perspective and to create a buzz amongst the educated class or people who see and understand the actual perspective of the issue…

How many of the people actually resorting to such forms of torture actually saw the program? If, they did, how many actually understood the implications of the same? Even if they could grasp 3% of what was mentioned therein, how many actually got down to implementing it in their own homes??

How do you deal with the masses who still relate to and emulate the “Saas-Bahu” serials being aired on Television?

What of masses where one woman is shared by more than two men in the family, just because they haven’t been able to find individual brides for themselves?

What of the masses for whom women are ones to have sex with, impregnate, force her to undergo abortions knowingly or unknowingly, kill the girl child post birth, force her into endless pregnancies in desire for a male child, blame her for anything and everything… ??


Who educates them on the greater perils of the skewed ratios which as of now are huge but will go on to take gigantic proportions if not dealt with down at the ground level?


Has anyone ever recorded the statistics of cases that go unreported per year for crimes of Wife beating, Mental torture, Rape, Marital Rape? In such cases what happens to the law that advocates that any woman residing under a man's shelter be it - Mother, Sister, Daughter, Wife, or a live-in partner - be entitled to file a complain and a case against the man for mental or physical abuse? 

Where does law and the judicial system vanish when she actually stands in court trying to defend herself for mental torture? Why is her statement not enough and she has to run from pillar to post to try and prove an intangible happening in her life? Aren't the men sitting there torturing her already tortured soul??

Sadly, are there enough laws governing the same? If there are any, who ensures that they are taking effect where and when required, because as far as I understand the Indian society, who brings such crime to notice – the mother of the unborn child or the just aborted foetus?? THINK!! The family inflicting or forcing such an act certainly wouldn't!!

People have taken laws into their hands to ill-treat and destroy the “Female” at every juncture, Now…

Who takes law into their hands to respect the soul of a woman? 
Who takes law into their hands to bring justice to the Female? 
Who takes actions to bring justice to the UNBORN?? 

Women in India are depicted by “The RED Dot” and needless to forget that the colour red stands for nothing but the colour of BLOOD… It’s the colour of VIBRANCY, LOVE, PASSION, POWER, STRUGGLE, FIGHT, VIOLENCE and DANGER, … never ever of SUBMISSION!!

Women have been taking in a lot of flak and torture for centuries without actually hitting it out. Just a reminder... 

…Lest the society forgets or fails to realize … Being quiet is most certainly not a sign of submission or acceptance of what’s happening… I’d rather read it as the “Lull before the Storm” that lurks somewhere with the depths of her soul… Waiting to create a Whirl and Destroy!! 

Monday, May 18

The Earth is a Canvas...







"Winter is an etching, spring a watercolor, summer an oil painting and autumn a mosaic of them all"




"SOUTH SEA HARBOR"


Ruben Coy studied at the University of Houston and The Houston Museumof Fine Arts School. An instructor for 24 years, his works are foundin numerous exhibitions, museums, galleries and collections. Hispopular rainforest paintings reference the mind's eye– with the themeof earth as a sacred place, they evoke both religious and sensuousfeelings. Ruben has been teaching at Art League Houston for over 15 years. He specializes in glazing techniques with oils.




"FLAMBOYANT"


Earth as a sacred place is the theme of my paintings. Feelings both spiritual and sensuous are evoked by the painting images. The mysterious beauty of this world is emphasized in the paintings. Earth’s varied natural forms are arranged into alluring and fantastic settings. The canvas becomes an open portal into the landscapes due to the emphasized perspective used in the paintings. The flora of the Earth is the focus in the works and our world is portrayed as an enchanted garden. Oil over acrylic on canvas is used to create the paintings....














http://home.earthlink.net/~rubencoy/artworkofrubencoy/Welcome.html


http://www.artleaguehouston.org/Instructor_links%20to_pics/Ruben%20Coy%20images.pdf






Amazing work.... so 3-dimensional in its perspective.... really motivates me to take up painting once again... Hope to start soon...




Monday, March 30

March ... towards the Sunset...


Inspired by the beauty of a sunset captured by a friend ...
I write this as an ode to a brief but beautiful, special friendship ...
Sunsets !!
Beautiful...
... yet Mysterious...

Every moment in the day... as life holds its own beauty...
...each with their own beauty and agony...
"Dawn" is a moment of awakening, "Noon" a period of realization,
"Dusk" a time of appreciation...

Everyday as it begins... brings with it an element of hope just as a relationship... the harbinger of happiness, positivity... love, understanding ... a blossoming friendship...

The day moves on...
... the heat, the trials and tribulations of life...
...somewhere the importance and beauty of a glorious beginning ...
...is lost on the way ...
... a beautiful, flourishing relationship begins to wilt...

Thoughts... Afternoons and early evenings... leading towards a feeling of achievement, accomplishment ... windingup... a contemplation of the ups, downs ... a realisation of the beauty of the day that was... a flower... withered away... ... lost in time and its momentary glory... ... moving towards the sunset...

Dusk... Twilight... Sunsets ...
...mark a move towards the end...
A consolidation ...a meeting and mingling of the restless...
...a feeling of solitude, gratitude, happiness, wishfulness...
...a myriad of emotions...
...but it still revels in the beauty of bringing all... HOME ...
... together where they belong!!

Twilight slowly slips into a reddish darkness.... ...signifying the end... what remains thereafter is the mystery of what is due to begin ... ... the mystery of a new tomorrow, a new beginning, a new transaction, a new relationship... ...planting the seeds of HOPE...


Is it the end or a "new" beginning?

HOPE this dusk brings in a better dawn...
As March moves towards the end...
…leaving tread marks for April to follow
...transcending from one into another...


Wishing for the eternal...

...Knowing all the way...
...that nothing lasts Forever!!



Tuesday, February 24

“The spirit of women” … A tribute!!



A woman has strengths that amaze men... She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions... She smiles when she feels like screaming... She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid... Her love is unconditional!

There is only one thing wrong with her, she sometimes forgets what she is worth!!

... with these lines I offer a tribute to those women, who with their sheer grit and determination have not only withstood the trials and tribulations of life but having the courage to tread a path unknown and unfathomed in the times they lived in... Flourished to enlighten the generations that followed...

My Feudal Lord… In the Name of Honour… Princess… Not without my daughter… A Thousand Splendid Suns… … All these novels have in common is the fact that they all are tributes to the "spirit of women" ... Women from in different eras… different nations... different age groups… Women interwoven in times… Women interwoven through circumstances… Women who have had the grit and determination to deal with and rise against the atrocities, crimes, deprivation, suppression ... Women who have had the resilience to strike back and survive the atrocities committed against them…… survive... and survive well… and… GROW…

When I see the news today… the incidents in the remotest regions of Pakistan that face the resurgence of the Taliban… take me back to the time lucidly described by Khaled Hosseini in the novel “A Thousand Splendid Suns”.... a time when the finest of the poetry was being penned down in native Persian... Afghanistan of the early 80's which was emerging as the capital of cosmopolitan culture, Persian literature was at its best... The Taliban suddenly emerged ... snubbing any talk of literature, education, freedom... the Radio... which was once a source of insights into Persian literature and poetry suddenly belted out views and ideals of the Taliban ...

The enormousity of the state of women in these Islamic nations as described in these books actually sunk into me the day I read "A thousand Splendid Suns" and... what’s amazing is that a man could feel and narrate with such sensitivity what other men had tried to crush under their bare heels... "the spirit of women" ... Sensitivity… to feel and understand what these women have had to undergo in a nation so war torn and ripped apart… the beautiful place of his birth lying in shambles… bullet ridden… bitter… ruined … misery and oppression marking the streets… that there could be no better tribute than to give an expression to the silent sentiments of these people…

Women authors… bold women who have defied the norms of the society they lived in… women who have been ostracised for giving a voice to a silent generation… And as for women… who have written these poignant descriptions are none other than women who have experienced these heart wrenching scenarios first hand… women who have lived through the oppression and have managed to survive... not only survive but grow into women of grit and determination... they have given a voice to the silent world of these women in the Indian subcontinent... it is their sheer determination that has encouraged women in these nations to speak up, be educated and most importantly ... Be Free!!

Women!!…
Realise your own worth because if you don’t no one else ever will!!

Men!!…
Women are all around you… Love them… cherish them… hold them in your hearts… but most importantly understand and respect them… Do not take them for granted … realize that they are not just mere objects of desire but thinking individuals with their own opinions and ideals… And most importantly never try to trample the “spirit of a woman”… you might end up losing the battle!!


So long… till then just have a glimpse…


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siJXPRFKs2A